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New Post 6/12/2008 11:03 PM
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codependants 
I don't want to have to file for divorce. My husband is and addict with all the manipulative & controlling behavior. He is the love of my life however I made a promise to my 13 year old son that I would never put him back in that situation again. I am definately seeing tons of codependaency behaviors in my sons and now myself. I valued peace so much that I have given up me and my needs. I know this is not healthy behavior and I will not allow myself to act as a codependent one more day. I know that as long as I continue to try to fix what he has to, pick him up when he falls, be responsible for what he needs to be responsible for, buy into his poor me and everything is my fault not his behavior that he will remain an addict. I am going to help him by letting him take care and be responsible for himself even though I know it is going to be hell for him. I can do this because this is his only chance of getting well. His soul is dying and I want him to learn to face head on with complete honesty and learn to live life as Heavenly Father desires for him. Help!
 
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Re: codependants 
It is difficult living with someone in active addiction.  Might I suggest Alanon or the LDS 12 step meetings.  They are call Addiction Recovery Program (ARP).  If you have any further questions, you can contact me at any of the Renaissance Ranch phone numbers.

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